{"id":520,"date":"2011-01-19T00:21:00","date_gmt":"2011-01-19T00:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/glitteringshards.com\/blog\/2011\/changing-the-world\/"},"modified":"2011-01-19T00:21:00","modified_gmt":"2011-01-19T00:21:00","slug":"changing-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/glitteringshards.com\/blog\/changing-the-world\/","title":{"rendered":"Changing the world…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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My sweet firstborn is 5 years old today! I still look at her and am full of awe<\/em> at how this little human life IS. Joy<\/em>at how she is unfolding into her years.<\/p>\n

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Everyone says (and we know), that it goes fast, so fast.<\/p>\n

Over the last few years, I have often had this phrase floating round my head:\u00a0 “You are shaping another person’s childhood<\/em>“. That is an awesome and wonderful thing, especially for those us for whom childhood has held dark times.<\/p>\n

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The power to create a big stock of happy memories.<\/p>\n

Memories of simply being held<\/em> and touched.<\/p>\n

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Memories of play, creativity, romping on the floor, silliness, inquisitve questioning.<\/p>\n

Memories of being heard, deeply<\/em> listened to and valued for what you say and are.<\/p>\n

Memories of knowing you matter<\/em>, your feelings<\/em> matter and are worthy of a loving (which sometimes means firm) response.<\/p>\n

Memories of community, of relatedness and connection to a ‘tribe’ of people (in our case, urban and patched together from many walks of life!).<\/p>\n

This is our power, our responsibility as parents and carers of children – to create childhoods that whilst not perfect (for we will all bear internal wounds as well as grazes to our childhood knees) are nonetheless brimming with\u00a0 goodness, connectedness, creativity and a sense of wonder that will give our little people all they need to stand tall as loving humans in the middle of a broken world. This is our power – to face up to the historical wounds that have remained toxic, unhealed and passed from generation to generation,\u00a0 look them square in the eye and say “The buck stops here – the poison from this wound goes no further”. <\/em><\/p>\n

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I am helping create my sweet babe’s childhoods through love, kindness and hard internal work using the tools of self-awareness, honesty, grace and hope.<\/p>\n

This is how we change the world. One childhood at a time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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