{"id":536,"date":"2011-03-06T23:01:00","date_gmt":"2011-03-06T23:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/glitteringshards.com\/blog\/2011\/home-organising-and-rhythm-setting\/"},"modified":"2011-03-06T23:01:00","modified_gmt":"2011-03-06T23:01:00","slug":"home-organising-and-rhythm-setting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/glitteringshards.com\/blog\/home-organising-and-rhythm-setting\/","title":{"rendered":"Home organising and rhythm setting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is something about my personality and life experience which means I need a sense of rhythm to my life. Since becoming\u00a0 a parent, that need has become acute. I have tried to push it aside and live by &#8216;going with the flow&#8217;, but it hasn&#8217;t worked for me, especially with the demands of a growing creative business.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-rftQ0USoqP4\/TXP_GDhZJrI\/AAAAAAAAB2Q\/TOFTtmVekmQ\/s1600\/DSC_0497.JPG\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-rftQ0USoqP4\/TXP_GDhZJrI\/AAAAAAAAB2Q\/TOFTtmVekmQ\/s640\/DSC_0497.JPG\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"425\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>So I am setting my intention to work towards a life with more ryhthm. Of finding a <em><span style=\"font-size: large;\">pace<\/span> <\/em>to life that feels more realistic and respectful of where I am at in my stage of life (with two young children to nurture,\u00a0 a family home to maintain and &#8216;art&#8217; calling me). A way of running my life so that it feels more <span style=\"font-size: large;\"><em>balanced<\/em><\/span> rather than being so deep in one area of life that I\u00a0 neglect the rest. A way of living that decreases stress and increases <span style=\"font-size: large;\"><em>calm.<\/em><\/span> A pattern to life that respects my need to know <span style=\"font-size: large;\"><em>where<\/em><\/span> I am at and <span style=\"font-size: large;\"><em>what I am to give my attention to<\/em><span style=\"font-size: small;\"> at a given moment<\/span><em> <\/em><\/span>rather than feeling that I have to deal with \/ develop \/ achieve everything right now (recipe for overwhelm if there ever was one).<\/p>\n<p>I have tons I want to say about what rhythmical living means and does not mean to me but for now, let me tell you how I have begun:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>By <em>clearing<\/em> <em>the physical space<\/em> in my life<\/li>\n<li>By developing a way to <em>intuitively plan <\/em>my use of time.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>On the latter, I am playing with different\u00a0 &#8216;tools&#8217; to do this and I will let you know what works and what doesn&#8217;t!<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/-RE6VUcAW1_4\/TXP-jlaBuRI\/AAAAAAAAB2I\/QEi99eIOFC4\/s1600\/DSC_0417.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/-RE6VUcAW1_4\/TXP-jlaBuRI\/AAAAAAAAB2I\/QEi99eIOFC4\/s640\/DSC_0417.JPG\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>As for <em>clearing the space<\/em>&#8230;oh my! I have done my best over the last 5 years since having children to keep <em>some <\/em>sort of home organisation going. But, truth be told,\u00a0 many, many corners of the home have been filled with things tidily <em>shoved<\/em> away. Seeing these hot spots of neglect have left me frequently hyperventilating (you know that feeling, when you can&#8217;t find what you need or you open the cupboard door and things tumble out?)<\/p>\n<p>So, in my quest to clear the metaphorical dance floor of my life so that I can dance my rhythm without tripping, I have spent the last 10 weeks sorting, de-cluttering and tidying. So far I have tackled:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>the kitchen cupboards (happily, in good preparation for <a href=\"http:\/\/beautythatmoves.typepad.com\/beauty_that_moves\/2011\/02\/i-am-ready-to-work-with-you-30-day-vegan-cleanse.html\">this course<\/a> on Vegan living that start tomorrow)<\/li>\n<li>the utensils draws in the kitchen (yay! The draw has not got stuck once since!)<\/li>\n<li>the understairs cuboard (including using the genius system from my friend Kate, for organising medicine into two boxes &#8211; &#8216;internal&#8217; and &#8216;external&#8217;)<\/li>\n<li>all our paperwork and filing has been gone through and stuff chucked, organised or archived. I feel like I need an enourmous round of applause for this as its over 5 years worth &#8211; phew! I think that we may now be able to actually <em>find<\/em> a piece of paper when we need it!<\/li>\n<li>I have sorted my jewelry and made this display frame from a beautiful piece of lace\u00a0 (hand-made and given to me by a dear lady in Finland) which I have mounted on a wooden frame.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/lh6.googleusercontent.com\/-onXta-eFak0\/TXQBvSJI4bI\/AAAAAAAAB2U\/xBnwFKU79lw\/s1600\/DSC_0734.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh6.googleusercontent.com\/-onXta-eFak0\/TXQBvSJI4bI\/AAAAAAAAB2U\/xBnwFKU79lw\/s640\/DSC_0734.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"426\" height=\"640\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>I adapted this idea from Heather at <a href=\"http:\/\/beautythatmoves.typepad.com\/beauty_that_moves\/\">Beauty that Moves<\/a> who showed how she used a small bit of lace in an embroidery hoop for hanging earrings. It&#8217;s so lovely seeing all the various sparkly bits (many with feelings attached) on display &#8211; it is like using all your jewelry to make a work of art!<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-aax9PdntkGQ\/TXQCTK98EJI\/AAAAAAAAB2Y\/ps5VC6np9bM\/s1600\/DSC_0738.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-aax9PdntkGQ\/TXQCTK98EJI\/AAAAAAAAB2Y\/ps5VC6np9bM\/s640\/DSC_0738.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"426\" height=\"640\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>my artists studio has been thoroughly cleared out and I have <em>nearly<\/em> finished sorting all my tiles (will post pics of the inside when I do)<\/li>\n<li>kids toys have been thinned out, sorted and tidied including all the girly nick nacks (how many bracelets and necklaces can a little girl have? Mmm&#8230;about as many as her mummy maybe?)<\/li>\n<li>our hat gallery is back!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-le6NkBi8jL0\/TXQDG8RxLRI\/AAAAAAAAB2g\/nm214CXtyqM\/s1600\/DSC_0752.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-le6NkBi8jL0\/TXQDG8RxLRI\/AAAAAAAAB2g\/nm214CXtyqM\/s640\/DSC_0752.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"426\" height=\"640\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>my sewing area is finally cleared, sorted and set up and I <em>will<\/em> finish our family snuggle quilt for the living room by next winter&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/-jgJ4ZRemehY\/TXQCsAjygpI\/AAAAAAAAB2c\/CilagQ785tM\/s1600\/DSC_0750.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/-jgJ4ZRemehY\/TXQCsAjygpI\/AAAAAAAAB2c\/CilagQ785tM\/s640\/DSC_0750.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"426\" height=\"640\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Still many house projects to tackle but it feels sooo good to have made such headway, particularly as I have a busy time coming up with my art in the next few months (some exciting news to share soon!).<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-gClIBGtijfo\/TXP9_F-sVDI\/AAAAAAAAB2E\/LfkjLhyfEx4\/s1600\/DSC_0375.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-gClIBGtijfo\/TXP9_F-sVDI\/AAAAAAAAB2E\/LfkjLhyfEx4\/s640\/DSC_0375.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"426\" height=\"640\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>PS. The picture above my sewing desk is by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nikkimcclure.com\/\">Nikki McClure<\/a> , an inspiring self-taught artist and children&#8217;s author who makes the most beautiful paper-cut art. The picture was a 40th birthday present from friend, blogger and fellow Tooting creative <a href=\"http:\/\/fabricnationadventures.blogspot.com\/\">Gillian<\/a>. When she gave it to me, it welled me up &#8211; there is something in the picture that touches me deeply.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is something about my personality and life experience which means I need a sense of rhythm to my life. Since becoming\u00a0 a parent, that need has become acute. 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